Gender is created partially in your genes, partially in your brain and lots in the environment, but not something you have control over.
When thinking about being a boy or a girl, follow your child’s lead, there is no need to teach them.
Traditionally Māori men were very nurturing and played significant caregiving roles alongside the mother. They were very loving and affectionate to their pēpi and tamariki.
Don’t be scared of your child exploring different gender roles.