Relationships with your tamaiti and their school/teacher.
Relationships with each other.
When looking for a school for your tamaiti, find a school where you think the teacher will be there long term and then build, strengthen and value the relationship.
Don’t worry too much about the amount of friends your tamaiti has or how often they change them, as long as they have one.
Help improve their relationships with their peers and teach them skills to deal with situations in a positive way.